I substitute-taught a class the other week called “Discovering your Design.” The course uses personality assessments to help people uncover what they were created to do. This class in particular, on “values,” included a Venn diagram illustrating how our ideal values only partly match up with the way we actually live our lives. The page in my teacher’s handbook showed two circles overlapping in a small oblong area in the middle. The first circle was our current reality; the second circle was a future ideal. I told the students that their goal was to push these two circles together until they were a single circle drawn around twice.Read More Post a comment (0)
Syncopation: you either love it or you hate it.
In musical terms, syncopation is a break in the established time signature or rhythm of the song. I remember playing a jazzy blues tune that I liked for a friend in college. Three-quarters into the tune, the music broke rhythm and a couple of seconds of syncopation ensued. My friend said, “I really like the song except for the part toward the end.” He was referring to the syncopation. He then said: “It felt like a ‘hic-up.’”
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It’s easy to deplore the excesses of American commercial Christmas with its formidable combination of Santa Claus, credit cards, and Toys R Us. Yet, sometimes I wonder if the giddy excitement my siblings and I as children felt on Christmas Eve is a strikingly good picture of the spirit of Advent—the joyful anticipation of a coming gift. What if the Santa Claus fable functions like one of Jesus’s parables: a secular story that captures our imagination and embodies what it’s like to live in the kingdom of God?Read More Post a comment (0)
There really is no better time than Advent to talk about the mystery of waiting. Under the best of circumstances, the delayed gratification of waiting is not something we embrace easily. The culture we have built bullies us into thinking that unless we have the next trinket, the next job, the next vacation, the next relationship, right away, our lives are somehow incomplete. What compounds the situation is the fact that we have effectively done away with waiting through “no monthly payments, no interest for a year” or “buy now, pay later” or “sleep with me now and I’ll still love you” or “let’s order pizza since there’s no time to make dinner.” And on and on it goes.Read More Post a comment (2)
A reading from John Chrysostom
But why was the Christ child sent into Egypt? The text makes this clear: he was to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet, out of Egypt have I called my son. (Hos 11:1.) From that point onward we see that the hope of salvation would be proclaimed to the whole world. Babylon and Egypt represent the whole world. Even when they were engulfed in ungodliness, God signified that he intended to correct and amend both Babylon and Egypt. God wanted humanity to expect his bounteous gifts the world over. So he called from Babylon the wise men and sent to Egypt the holy family.
Besides what I have said, there is another lesson also to be learned, which tends powerfully toward true self-constraint in us. We are warned from the beginning to look out for temptations and plots. And we see this even when he came in swaddling clothes. Thus you see even at his birth a tyrant raging, a flight ensuing and a departure beyond the border. For it was because of no crime that his family was exiled into the land of the Egypt.
Similarly, you yourself need not be troubled if you are suffering countless dangers. Do not expect to be celebrated or crowned promptly for your troubles. Instead you may keep in mind the longsuffering example of the mother of the Child, bearing all things nobly, knowing that such a fugitive life is consistent with the ordering of spiritual things. You are sharing the kind of labor Mary herself shared. So did the magi. They both were willing to retire secretly in the humiliating role of fugitive. (The Gospel of Matthew, Homily 8.2.)
Two thoughts come to mind: first, how may I become mindful of “the long-suffering example of the mother of the Child” in my spiritual journey? Second, I’m reminded to pray for those who know to well the countless dangers of following Christ in a hostile world—in particular to pray for those Christians living in Egypt and Iraq.
A Reading from St. Augustine
We believe in him that he was born of the Holy Spirit and the Virgin Mary. Each birth of his, you see, must be considered wonderful, both that of his divinity and that of his humanity. The first is from the Father without mother, the second from mother without father; the first apart from all time, the second at “the acceptable time;” the first eternal, the second at the right moment; the first without a body “in the bosom of the Father,” the second with a body, which did not violate the virginity of his mother; the first without either sex, the second without a man’s embrace. (ACCS IVa:56)
Early church writers like Augustine juxtaposed seemingly incompatible ideas to illuminate the miracle of the birth of Christ. Lingering in this tension between the eternal and the temporal, we receive a glimpse into the mystery of the eternal love of God as revealed in history.
It wasn’t until I served in an interim role at a Lutheran church that I really understood the significance of liturgical seasons like this one. Since that time, I have come to appreciate the historical (since the beginning of the early church) and global practice (with Christians from around the world) of joining the common prayers and reflections of a given season in the church calendar.Read More Post a comment (1)
I held Madonna in my hand–a small figure from our Nativity. Her head was slightly bowed; posture tipped forward, as if bowing her heart, as well. I studied her, something of her form speaking to me about myself.Read More Post a comment (2)
In Luke 1:72-73, Zechariah recognizes that Jesus will be one who God uses “to show mercy to our fathers and to remember his holy covenant, the oath he swore to our father Abraham: to rescue us from the hand of our enemies, and to enable us to serve him without fear in holiness and righteousness before him all our days.” This last line helped me remember that God enables me to minister 1) without fear 2) in holiness and righteousness 3) before him 4) all our days.Read More Post a comment (0)
If you’ve ever seen the movie National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation, then you’ve caught a small glimpse of me around the Holidays in the character of Clark Griswald. I start listening to Christmas music around October, and begrudgingly take down the last of my decorations mid-February. I stretch the festivities to their breaking point, and then do one final yank for good measure. It’s been this way since I was a kid: the anticipation, the impatience, the joy…the sweaters. The only difference now, as an adult, is that I am forced to constantly combat the advertising and consumerism that tries to usurp the simple happiness I am trying to so desperately retain from my childhood.Read More Post a comment (0)