Dusty Road

Amid reality of death and rumors of resurrection, Jesus’s friends walked a dusty road to Emmaus. And “Jesus Himself drew near.” Preoccupied as they were, it took miles and the breaking of bread for the travelers to recognize Jesus as more than a stranger, though He was with them all along as a friend.

Today I walk my own dusty roads and wonder where I fail to see Jesus because I only know Him as a stranger. Where is Jesus appearing in my life? He is with me through the banana bread my neighbor leaves on my porch on Saturday morning, through the reaching out of a hand to squeeze mine as I journey the communion line at church, through hand-me-down clothes a friend sets aside for my first grader.

Could welcoming Jesus, the Stranger, mean welcoming, noticing, receiving simple kindnesses? The war veteran who picks up my daughter’s crayon at the restaurant, the hands guiding my head under warm water at the hairdresser, the doctor’s receptionist who smiles even though I am fifteen minutes late.

Once I start noticing the kindnesses of God—the presence of Jesus on this road—they start happening more. They start coming from me more. Jesus the Stranger becomes delightfully surprising. And God’s grace appears, again and again, through the love of others, through my love for others. It shows up, in fact, nearly everywhere I look. Just as if it was there all along.

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Where are you on the dusty road?

Where have you noticed Jesus in the kindness and simple gestures of others?

Elisa Fryling Stanford:
    Elisa Fryling Stanford is a writer and editor in Colorado. She is the author of Ordinary Losses: Naming the Graces That Shape Us. Elisa and her husband have two daughters.  
    • There was a time in marriage when I didn’t feel cherished. Then one afternoon while I was jogging and praying (complaining) to God about this, He said, “Look for the ways he cherishes you.” In other words, my husband *was* cherishing me, just not in the ways I was trying to dictate. As soon as I started doing this, it was just like you describe: “It shows up, in fact, nearly everywhere I look. Just as if it was there all along.”

      • Elisa Stanford

        What a beautiful example, thank you!

    • Valerie Hess

      The Discipline of Celebration has become very important to me. It is based on the Philippians 4:4-8 passage where we are commanded to think on things that are true and honorable, implying that it is discipline to do this when things are false and ugly.

      Part of becoming more Christ-like is developing new eyes.

    • Elisa Stanford

      I love that reminder…. Thank you for these words.

      • John Stanford

        thank you. you helped me tonight to open my eyes to God at work around me.

    • Avi

      I really love reading these. They make me smile, think, and just in general make my day. It reminds me of talking to an old man, and a child is the other conversationist, and they talk like nothing bothers them in the world, just thinking and expressing their values and thoughts and beliefs. It makes me feel a sense of calm, this one, in particular, and makes me wonder exactly what they mean in retrospect to my own life. It’s very inspiring. 🙂

      ~ Averi (Avi)